“For the most part, the camera did not cause rift, rather it was a gift,” says photographer Dena Elisabeth Eber to the Phoblographer in an interview. “It allowed both of us to see our relationship from the outside. There may have been a time or two when Alex or I had enough of the camera, and I include one such important part of the story in the book.” Alex is the name of her child, who transitioned and is the hero of the story. And in many ways, the two collaborated in the making of You Refused To Believe You Ever Liked Pink.